Hi, I am Hannah
This was the start of my journey...
I first joined West Midlands Police in 1998 as a fresh-faced 21 year old, proud and excited about being a Police Officer, and yet in no way prepared for the life-changing world I was about to enter. Throughout our initial training and probation period to be a police officer, we learnt many new skills that we would need to carry out our roles.
We learnt protective skills, listening skills, rules, regulations and discipline; however, no one talked about the importance of taking care of our own mental health and wellbeing throughout this very unique and demanding role of being a member of the Police Service.
I was in the police for fifteen years, mainly in uniform as a Response Officer and within the CID Department for Major Crime. My days were long and challenging but also exhilarating. I made life-long friends and discovered strengths I never knew I had. Joining the Police was like becoming part of a new family - one based on friendships, shared experience, trust and a particularly dark sense of humour!
I had found my career, my identity and my passion.
Working in the police force has many rewards, but being in this environment every day can take its toll, too - your stress levels soar, it affects your sleeping and eating patterns, and it changes your relationships with friends and family.
You are also exposed to human traumas and scenes that become increasingly hard to shrug off when you get home at the end of your shift. I simply didn’t realise the personal price I was paying for my career.
Hi, I am Hannah
This was the start of my journey...
I first joined West Midlands Police in 1998 as a fresh-faced 21 year old, proud and excited about being a Police Officer, and yet in no way prepared for the life-changing world I was about to enter. Throughout our initial training and probation period to be a police officer, we learnt many new skills that we would need to carry out our roles.
We learnt protective skills, listening skills, rules, regulations and discipline; however, no one talked about the importance of taking care of our own mental health and wellbeing throughout this very unique and demanding role of being a member of the Police Service.
I was in the police for fifteen years, mainly in uniform as a Response Officer and within the CID Department for Major Crime. My days were long and challenging but also exhilarating. I made life-long friends and discovered strengths I never knew I had. Joining the Police was like becoming part of a new family - one based on friendships, shared experience, trust and a particularly dark sense of humour!
I had found my career, my identity and my passion.
Working in the police force has many rewards, but being in this environment every day can take its toll, too - your stress levels soar, it affects your sleeping and eating patterns, and it changes your relationships with friends and family.
You are also exposed to human traumas and scenes that become increasingly hard to shrug off when you get home at the end of your shift. I simply didn’t realise the personal price I was paying for my career.
Burnout and PTSD
By 2011 I was 34 years old and the feelings of pride and excitement for my job had changed to those of being overwhelmed and burnt out. I was struggling with the demands of the job whilst supporting my young family and my husband. I felt emotionally disconnected from the difficult jobs we were dealing with nearly every day.
I just didn’t have it in me to care about them any more. I desperately wanted to tell my supervisor that I wasn’t coping, but I was too ashamed. Unbeknownst to me, I was suffering from undiagnosed PTSD, but we had no training, awareness or support around this. I believed that I was the only one who couldn’t cope, so I blamed myself for not being tough enough or good enough to do a better job.
The stigma around mental and emotional health issues is more heightened in the Emergency Services than it is in wider society; we didn’t talk about it, we didn’t deal with it and often we simply didn’t understand it.
I spent my whole career looking after others who were going through a difficult time, but I had no idea how to do that for myself, and I simply didn’t understand the importance of self-care.
Cancer
Then I discovered a lump in my breast. Tests soon confirmed that I had breast cancer. My diagnosis left me reeling in shock and fear. But there was another emotion that I was feeling, too - a feeling of absolute relief. Relief that I didn’t have to go into work the next day and face it all again. Throughout my surgery and chemotherapy treatment, through losing my hair and dealing with many difficult emotions, there was that constant recurring thought, ‘at least I don’t have to go in to work.’
Dr, Thomas Nesselhut ,
who treated me for cancer in Germany, in 2012
Following many months off sick, I did eventually return to work. But within a few months my cancer had returned, and it was during this second period of illness, facing more treatment and a poor prognosis for recovery, that the full realisation of my situation began to sink in; the way I was living and working was making me sick - it was literally killing me. I took a long, hard look at my life and lifestyle, both at work and at home, and I knew that something had to change.
My choice was clear; I needed to learn and understand how to become really well - physically, mentally and emotionally -
or continue to suffer and be unwell.
I took my health and treatment into my own hands and undertook a pioneering cancer treatment in Germany. I also chose to resign from the Police Force, to be able to focus on my own recovery and wellbeing. Over the following weeks, months and years I learnt how to reduce my stress load, process the trauma I had experienced, pay attention to my thoughts and mindset, move my body more and yet listen to it when it needed to rest and repair.
Burnout and PTSD
By 2011 I was 34 years old and the feelings of pride and excitement for my job had changed to those of being overwhelmed and burnt out. I was struggling with the demands of the job whilst supporting my young family and my husband. I felt emotionally disconnected from the difficult jobs we were dealing with nearly every day.
I just didn’t have it in me to care about them any more. I desperately wanted to tell my supervisor that I wasn’t coping, but I was too ashamed. Unbeknownst to me, I was suffering from undiagnosed PTSD, but we had no training, awareness or support around this. I believed that I was the only one who couldn’t cope, so I blamed myself for not being tough enough or good enough to do a better job.
The stigma around mental and emotional health issues is more heightened in the Emergency Services than it is in wider society; we didn’t talk about it, we didn’t deal with it and often we simply didn’t understand it.
I spent my whole career looking after others who were going through a difficult time, but I had no idea how to do that for myself, and I simply didn’t understand the importance of self-care.
Cancer
Then I discovered a lump in my breast. Tests soon confirmed that I had breast cancer. My diagnosis left me reeling in shock and fear. But there was another emotion that I was feeling, too - a feeling of absolute relief. Relief that I didn’t have to go into work the next day and face it all again. Throughout my surgery and chemotherapy treatment, through losing my hair and dealing with many difficult emotions, there was that constant recurring thought, ‘at least I don’t have to go in to work.’
Dr, Thomas Nesselhut ,
who treated me for cancer in Germany, in 2012
Following many months off sick, I did eventually return to work. But within a few months my cancer had returned, and it was during this second period of illness, facing more treatment and a poor prognosis for recovery, that the full realisation of my situation began to sink in; the way I was living and working was making me sick - it was literally killing me. I took a long, hard look at my life and lifestyle, both at work and at home, and I knew that something had to change.
My choice was clear; I needed to learn and understand how to become really well - physically, mentally and emotionally - or continue to suffer and be unwell.
I took my health and treatment into my own hands and undertook a pioneering cancer treatment in Germany. I also chose to resign from the Police Force, to be able to focus on my own recovery and wellbeing. Over the following weeks, months and years I learnt how to reduce my stress load, process the trauma I had experienced, pay attention to my thoughts and mindset, move my body more and yet listen to it when it needed to rest and repair.
Wellbeing
I discovered a pioneering new form of psychotherapy called BWRT which helped remove the crippling emotions of PTSD that I still carried with me, following the different traumas that I had experienced during my time in the police force and during my cancer treatment.
I fully believe that all of the treatment and work that I did through this time is what has led me to be healthy, happy and cancer free to this day.
I later retrained over a number of years to enable me to dedicate my career to helping others who were struggling. I wanted to use the experiences I had gone through, together with my skills and qualifications, to help individuals, groups and teams with their mental health and wellbeing.
My work today allows me to fulfil my mission and purpose at Blue Light Wellbeing – to deliver with passion, to connect with credibility and to empower other people – thereby creating meaningful opportunities for improved mental health and wellbeing for all.
Wellbeing
I discovered a pioneering new form of psychotherapy called BWRT which helped remove the crippling emotions of PTSD that I still carried with me, following the different traumas that I had experienced during my time in the police force and during my cancer treatment.
I fully believe that all of the treatment and work that I did through this time is what has led me to be healthy, happy and cancer free to this day.
I later retrained over a number of years to enable me to dedicate my career to helping others who were struggling. I wanted to use the experiences I had gone through, together with my skills and qualifications, to help individuals, groups and teams with their mental health and wellbeing.
My work today allows me to fulfil my mission and purpose at Blue Light Wellbeing – to deliver with passion, to connect with credibility and to empower other people – thereby creating meaningful opportunities for improved mental health and wellbeing for all.
Our Services
Our Services
At Blue Light Wellbeing we provide tailored services for individuals, police, emergency services and corporate clients. Our variety of approaches include coaching, therapy, training, public speaking and consultancy to support emotional wellbeing and mental health.
Led by Hannah and working with a number of different Associate Facilitators where needed, we can shape your programme of support to best fit the issues you might be facing.
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